Thursday, December 10, 2015

Candy Canes

Candy Canes
By Bobbi Rightmyer

Red and white swirls
shaped like a shepherd’s crook,
is this an obvious reference to
the shepherds tending their flock by night?
But when you invert this classic shape
what to my wondering eyes should I see,
just the letter “J”, a simple J
maybe to remind us of the Christ child, Jesus.
Pure white color, the exact shade of snow
or does it signify the virgin birth
purity proclaimed from on high.
And what of the red,
just another jolly color of the season,
or the blood of Christ for all to see?
Peppermint flavor with a hint of a bite,
or the occasional cinnamon taste as a change of pace,
are these just the spices used today
to replace the frankincense and myrrh of old?
And the sugar is sweet and oh so addicting
whether eaten alone or stirred in a cup of cocoa,
maybe this is a sign that God’s words are addicting
and offering an love everlasting.

Wednesday, December 9, 2015

The Year of the Perfect Christmas Tree

If you are looking for the perfect Christmas book to read to you children, I highly recommend The Year of the Perfect Christmas Tree. Hope you enjoy it as much as I do!

The Year of the Perfect Christmas Tree by Gloria Houston; illustrated by Barbara Cooney

Hardcover: 32 pages
Publisher: Dial; 1st edition (September 30, 1988)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 080370299X
ISBN-13: 978-0803702998

Although this book was published in 1988, I didn't discover it until 1995, when my youngest was 3 years old. We first read it from the Mercer Public Library, but we checked it out so many times, I finally had a local bookstore order it for us. The library was kind enough to laminate the dust jacket for us.

Ruthie has been waiting patiently for her father to return from the war. As Christmas approaches, Ruthie's mother begins to worry about the Christmas tree tradition in their small Appalachian town of Pine Grove. The Pine Grove Church chooses one family each year to supply the Christmas tree. Ruthie and her father were so excited, because their family had been chosen to provide this year's tree.

During the spring before Papa left for the war, he and Ruthie climbed to the top of the rocky ridge to pick out the perfect tree. To mark this tree from all the rest, Papa takes one of Ruthie's hair ribbons and ties it to the top of the tree. Ruthie is so happy, because as the provider for the traditional tree, she will also get to portray the "heavenly angel" in the Christmas pagent.

When Mama realizes her husband may not make it home for Christmas, she and Ruthie set out in the wee morning hours of Christmas Eve in search of the marked tree. The trip is long and hard, but Ruthie and her Mama stick together and after many hours of hard work, they are able to deliver the tree to the church.

Back at home, Mama settles Ruthie in for a long winter's nap. Exhausted herself, Mama can't sleep because she is determined to make Ruthie's wishes come true. Because her husband had not returned, there was no money to buy Ruthie a new dress for the Christmas pagent or to buy her the doll she asked for from Santa. But Mama has a plan.

All day as Ruthie slept, Mama was at work on a new dress. Taking her beloved wedding dress, Mama cuts it down to make Ruthie an angel costume. Then she takes her last pair of stockings and fashions an angel doll, using the rest of the wedding dress to cloth the angel just like Ruthie.

When Ruthie awakens on Christmas Eve night, she is overjoyed with her angel costume. When they arrive at the church, Mama and Ruthie are so proud of the beautiful Christmas tree. After the Christmas service and pagent, Santa arrives to hand out presents to the children. Santa hands Ruthie the beautiful angel from the top of the tree (Ruthie had no idea her mother made the angel).

But the best present was yet to come. Leaving the church happy and joyful from the pagent and the present, Ruthie sees her father waiting outside the church door.

No matter how many times I read this book - and I still read it yearly, even though my children are grown - I still cry. This book has such a good morale and it makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside.

I cannot recommend this book highly enough - it is the perfect Christmas story.

Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Mistletoe

Christmas and mistletoes seem to go hand and hand, but did you know that Mistletoe is a parasite? Viscum album or European Mistletoe - the variety found in the Bluegrass - is a hemi-parasitic plant that grows attached to and within the branches of a tree or shrub. It is a poisonous plant that causes acute gastrointestinal problems including stomach pain, and diarrhea along with low pulse.

In the Bluegrass, now that most trees have shed their leaves, Mistletoe can be seen very easily growing high in treetops. Mistletoe grows on a wide range of host trees, which will stunt their growth and can even kill them with heavy infestation.

Mistletoe has sometimes been called the "vampire plant" because it can probe beneath the tree bark to drain water and minerals, enabling it to survive during a drought.

Mistletoe is commonly used as a Christmas decoration. An old Christian tradition said that mistletoe was once a tree and furnished the wood of the Cross. After the Crucifixion, the plant shriveled and became dwarfed to a parasitic vine. According to an old custom of Christmas, any male and female who meet under a hanging of mistletoe are supposed to kiss, hence the reason you see people standing under the Mistletoe.

Although there is no scientific data to support the use of Mistletoe extract as an anti-cancer agent, the extract has been used homeopathically for several centuries. In 2001 Mistletoe extract made headlines in the United States after actress Suzanne Somers used it instead of undergoing chemotherapy following her treatment for breast cancer using surgery.

Mistletoe is also the state flower of Oklahoma.

Monday, December 7, 2015

Dark Shadows episode 1-5



(Photo copyright ABC Productions and Dan Curtis Productions)


Most people know about Dark Shadows and the vampire Barnabas Collins, but did you know there were 210 episodes of this gothic soap opera before the introduction of Barnabas Collins? Anyone who knows me, knows I'm obsessed with Dark Shadows, so I've decided to share the show, via my blog, to introduce others to the world inside Collinsport. This is a summery of the first 5 episodes.

Dark Shadows: The Beginning 

Episode: 1  Original Air Date: 06-27-1966
Opening Voice over: Alexandra Moltke
Timeline: 1966
Victoria Winters travels to Collinsport by train from New York to be the governess of David Collins. She has been hired under mysterious circumstances, by Elizabeth Collins Stoddard, against the will of her brother, Roger Collins (father to David). Victoria, an orphan, believes that the job might lead her to find something about her past. Burke Devlin arrives on the same train after several years away from Collinsport. Burke has a private investigator checking up on the Collins family. Maggie Evans warns Victoria about the Collins family, but Victoria goes to Collinwood anyway.

Episode: 2  Original Air Date: 06-28-1966
Opening Voice over: Alexandra Moltke
Timeline: 1966
Having arrived at Collinwood, Victoria starts to settle in. At the Blue Whale, Joe Haskell becomes jealous when Carolyn dances with other guys. Victoria meets Roger who becomes agitated when he finds out that Burke Devlin has arrived in Collinsport.

Episode: 3   Original Air Date: 06-29-1966
Opening Voice over: Alexandra Moltke
Timeline: 1966
Victoria meets Carolyn. After learning of Burke's return to Collinsport, Roger searches for Sam Evans. Burke tries to extract information about the Collins family from Joe Haskell. Bill Malloy meets with Roger to discuss Burke's return; Roger appears to be unconcerned with the return of an "ex-convict". Later Bill meets with Burke, who admits he has a grudge against the Collins family.

Episode: 4   Original Air Date: 06-30-1966
Opening Voice over: Alexandra Moltke
Timeline: 1966
Roger and Elizabeth argue over the return of Burke and what Victoria may know about him. Roger and Elizabeth question Victoria about her contact with Burke Devlin. Roger's accusations anger Victoria. Later Victoria is awoken by the sounds of a sobbing woman, she then searches for the source of the sound. While searching she meets David who only says, "I hate you".

Episode: 5   Original Air Date: 07-01-1966
Opening Voice over: Alexandra Moltke
Timeline: 1966
After her first night at Collinwood, Victoria has decided to go back to New York. Victoria explains to Carolyn that she is an orphan and came to Collinsport because she believed that somehow she would find out about her past. Near Widow's Hill Victoria meets Sam Evans who tells Victoria about Josette Collins. Victoria finds out from Sam that Elizabeth has not left Collinwood in 18 years. Sam instructs Victoria to tell Roger that he wants to talk with him. Victoria returns to her room to find that David has helped her "pack" while she was out. Victoria changes her mind and decides to stay at Collinwood with renewed hopes that she will find out something about her past.


Cast featured in these episodes:
Victoria Winters - Alexandra Moltke
Elizabeth Collins Stoddard - Joan Bennett
Burke Devlin - Mitchell Ryan
Maggie Evans - Kathryn Leigh Scott
Roger Collins - Louis Edmonds
Carolyn Stoddard - Nancy Barrett
David Collins - David Henesy
Bill Malloy - Frank Schofield
Joe Haskell - Joel Crothers
Sam Evans - Mark Allen
Matthew Morgan - George Mitchell
 

Christmas cactus

The Christmas cactus has been a favorite houseplant and in the Bluegrass Region it is not unusual for a single plant to be passed down from generation to generation because they're long-lived, rather easy plants to grow. But if you want to get them in bloom for the upcoming holiday season, they will need a little special care during the coming weeks.

In September and October, Christmas cactus plants should be kept in a cool room where temperatures will remain around 50 degrees, give or take a few degrees. Be sure not to expose them to freezing temperatures. It's also very important they be kept in a room where no artificial light will be turned on at night.

The proper light exposure, correct temperatures and limited watering are the key to getting Christmas cactus to flower during the holiday season. During the fall months, the Christmas cactus should be placed in a spot where it receives indoor indirect bright light during the daylight hours but total darkness at night. (Much the same exposure you would give a poinsettia except a Christmas poinsettia requires warm temperatures whereas the Christmas cactus needs a spot where the temperatures are cool during the fall months.)

Since the Christmas cactus is a tropical plant it will require watering on much the same basis as any other type of tropical plant. A good procedure to follow is to water the plants thoroughly and then allow about the top inch of soil to dry before watering again. However, during the fall and winter months, the plants should be watered less frequently in order to get them to bloom.

Christmas cactus require about 50 to 60 percent humidity. So it's a good practice to place a glass, vase or tray of water near the plant. As the water evaporates it will provide the humidity the cactus needs. A humidity tray is another method of providing the humidity the Christmas cactus requires. This is done by filling a waterproof saucer with gravel, then adding water halfway up the gravel. Place the pot on the gravel surface.

In late October or early November, make an application of a 0-10-10 type liquid fertilizer. A second application of this fertilizer can be made in February. During the growing season from April through September, fertilize the plants with an all purpose liquid houseplant type fertilizer. The fertilizer you use should have a nitrogen ratio of no higher than 10 percent. Of the three numbers on a fertilizer container, the first number is nitrogen.

After The Christmas holiday season, the Christmas cactus should be given about a 30 day rest. Again place it in a cool room and provide limited water. Don't worry if it loses a few leaves or joints and appears weak during this rest period.

Friday, December 4, 2015

Bleeding heart liberal offers solutions



I am so tired of conservatives wringing their hands and crying, “Don’t take our guns. You’ll have to pry them from our cold dead hands.”  Let me say this, once:


                “No one wants to take away your precious guns!”

Period.

What we “bleeding heart liberals” are tired of is all the killing going on in America and around the world. We are offering suggestions and solutions, but the problem is so vast, there is no one solution. What is happening though is that the right doesn’t appear to be offering any type of solution. All they can do is cry, “Don’t take our guns!”

I am not stupid or uneducated. I realize that if someone wants to kill you, they will find a way. Be it by knife, or hammers, or as one troll posted on my Facebook page, a dump truck. I know my children cannot live in a bubble to protect them from the evils of the world, but they should feel safe walking down the street, going to a movie theater, or shopping in a mall. The problem is, in 2015, they are not guaranteed safety in these activities.

I support our police officers. They are trained to keep us safe, but in reality they usually don’t show up until after a crime has been committed. I realize that people have a right to defend their homes and families. My oldest two daughters own several guns and are both avid hunters, as is my son-in-law. I would never tell them they could not own guns, but that still doesn’t keep me from worrying about my precocious grandchildren.

I really believe this is all politically motivated, and that is a shame. I have always been a contentious citizen, voting and participating, as I can, with the political process. I may not always believe in a politician, but I voice my grievances and move on. Our politicians keep saying, “Our thoughts and prayers are with the family and victims of …”, but we need their actions, not just their thoughts. Do something!

I am seriously afraid of all the conceal-carry, open-carry laws – these people frighten me. I don’t want to have to worry about every minor argument with a stranger escalating into a violent standoff. It bothers me to walk through Wal-Mart and see someone other than a police officer or security guard wearing a gun. I don’t want to eat a meal out at my favorite restaurant and have to be faced with a gun at the next table. I don’t want to be caught in the crossfire if this person perceives a problem and starts to shoot.

What is the solution? I know it is outrageous to say we will eliminate all guns – that will never happen. But the killing has to stop.

I’m really tired of a country where, in many states, buying a firearm is as easy as buying a pair of shoes. Gun and firearm shows take place all over the country. The gun show loophole allows private citizens to sell firearms on a “secondary market”. Only 18 states require background checks for private gun sales. The other states don’t even have to require record of sales or ask for identification. Closing these loopholes would be a good start.

What is the solution? Spending more on mental health issues has been a huge topic the past few years, but where do we start? How do we keep a mentally ill person from obtaining a gun and going on a killing rampage?

As a person who has suffered from bipolar disease most of my adult life, I don’t know what the answer is. I seek treatment and am controlling my illness. But how do we require others to seek treatment? Pharmacy drugs are not the answer, even if you recommend a specific drug to someone with mental illness; you can never guarantee they will take the medication. You can’t lock up everyone who is depressed or anxious, and not everyone with a mental illness has a propensity for violence. Then you have the problem of cost. Many of the mental health patients require government assistance, but the GOP wants to decrease funding the Medicaid. What is the answer?

I had another troll tell me today that I needed a “Hurt Feelings Kit”: 1 package disposable tissues, 1 disc copy of The Notebook, 1 hug, 2 women’s tampons and 3 Jolly ranchers. As I said, this was someone trolling my page, and he is a sexist troll at that. He also told me: “When the shit hits the fan, I hope there is a list of anti-second amendment people. They’ll be the hierarchy in the internment camps. While the rest of us fight for our country.” This troll is just one example of what is wrong with this country.

I don’t want to take anyone’s guns away. However, I think gun owners should have to attend classes and pass a written test in regards to gun safety, as well as taking and passing a shooting range test. Then they should have to go to a hospital and pass a mental health test and a drug test. Finally, they should have to pass a rigorous background check for any criminal activity or association with criminal or terrorist groups.

I’m really tired of the declining moral compass in our country. What is the answer? I don’t know, but I’m tired of seeing innocent people die every day in America. Whether it is by gun, knife, hammer or dump truck. There has to be some way of preventing this. Can anyone give me an answer?

Vintage Silver Christmas Trees

SILVER TREES

Silver tinsel shimmers and reflects
the multi-colored lights -
red, yellow, green, pink and blue -
a glistening holiday sight.
Although much better than trees from the past,
a silver tree is still unique
with the characteristics of its green counterparts,
but daintier, fuller, unusually pretty.
Memories of vintage 70s trees
without the retro color wheel,
no Christmas lights could be applied
and only round glass balls were allowed.
O, how the colored lights were missed,
but these trees were all the rage
and for a few holiday seasons
they were displayed with pride,
until the next fade came to town.
Things have changed in 40 years,
C9s replaced by multi-strings
and most mass produced ornaments are no longer glass,
but made from unbreakable plastic for keeps.
The new little tree is nostalgic in color and size,
but modernized to accept miniature lights
and the eclectic array of ornaments
collected from year to year.





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Wednesday, December 2, 2015

Ode to Orange Slice Cake

Last year, my youngest daughter, Chris, baked me an Orange Slice Cake for the very first time, but I was unable to enjoy because of my illness. I'm hoping she will indulge me again this year and bake another one because I will gobble it up! The following poem was written three years ago.

 


Ode to Orange Slice Cake

By Bobbi Rightmyer


Although butter is no longer my friend
it is hard to resist the creamy fluff it makes
when blended into sugar so pure and so white.
The eggs combine to give more texture still,
to the all-purpose flour that forms the cake.
Yummy dates so sweet
with pecans and coconut
give an irresistible taste delight to make a mouth water.
But it is the candied orange slices that make this dessert
a heavenly, to die for treat.
Orange slice cake comes but once a year
at a time when Old St. Nick is near. 


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Tuesday, December 1, 2015

Living Christmas tree

In order to have a living memory of a particular Christmas, displaying a live Christmas tree not only perks up the season, but provides a tree for your landscape. There are many people who hate to buy a cut tree then turn around and throw it out and many more who do not want an artificial tree.

Select a tree that is right for your climate, soil and light conditions. Be sure to select a tree variety that is hardy to two zones colder than your climate. Most nurseries will tag and hold trees until you're ready to bring them home.

Once you have picked out your live Christmas tree, here are a few hints on how to care and maintain it during the holiday season:

1. Gradually introduce your living tree from outside to inside over three or four days via the garage or enclosed porch. A tree that is dormant and exposed to immediate warmth will start to grow. You want to avoid any quick resumption of growth.

2. While the tree is introduced into the house using your porch or garage, check for critters and insect egg masses as the tree acclimates to an inside environment. Remember that you will need to reverse the process to plant the tree later. Now is also the time to dig a hole for permanent placement in your landscape – digging later may be hampered by freezing soil.

3. Visit your nearest lawn and garden supply store. Purchase a spray with an antidessicant or antiwilt product to minimize needle loss. This particular product will not only reduce needle loss, it will contain the loss of valuable moisture lost to a climate controlled home.

4. Try to locate your tree in the coolest part of the room and away from heating ducts. This will work with the anti-wilt product to keep the tree moist and prevent the loss of valuable moisture that is needed to survive.

5. Place the tree in a large galvanized washing tub including root ball. This tub stabilizes the tree and ball and confines water and needles into a more manageable and cleanable space. It will also contain any mess you might have and limit problems associated with a live tree living inside the home.

6. Stabilize the tree in the tub in a straight and vertical position using rocks or bricks. Water only in the tree's tub container if not a balled-in-burlap tree. Directly water balled-in-burlap tree that fits snugly in the tub container.

7. If balled-in-burlap, fill empty space around and on top of the ball with mulch to retain as much moisture as possible. Then water your tree as often as necessary to moisten the roots but not soggy. Never over water beyond moist.

8. Leave your tree inside no longer than 7-10 days (some experts suggest only 5 days). Never add nutrients or fertilizers as that may initiate growth which you don't want to occur in a dormant tree.

9. Carefully introduce tree back outside using the reverse procedure and plant into the pre-dug hole in the landscape.

You can skip the galvanized tub and stabilization steps if the tree comes packed in a plastic bucket. Remember to protect floor and carpet from water by using a pan. Anti-desiccants and anti-wilt products are sold under the names of Wilt Pruf or Cloud Cover.

Christmas lights do not pose a serious threat to plants; depending on the types of lights and how you use them, however, they can cause some minor damage. Large bulbs can create enough heat to actually burn leaf surfaces, so use only light strands that come with tiny bulbs.

Bright Future



BRIGHT FUTURE


Out of the fallen dusk
night draws near,
and a stranger, who is not a stranger,
approaches with a soul shaped by remembrance and loneliness.
The persistent strain of moans and groans,
don't rule out the possibilities.
The shapes of the stories and descriptions
handed down from roots and blood and soul;
form their own destiny.
Indulging in fanciful attitudes
will only lead to sadness from the past.
So return to live the life you never got to live,
the uneasy days,
the invasion of privacy,
the great mystery is finally over.
The future awaits, and it is a bright future indeed.